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Psychologist Pauline Bos in conversation about burnout complaints in Amsterdam

Burnout and stress

Psychologist for burnout and stress in Amsterdam

Your body is tired, but your mind keeps going. Even in your free time you think about what still needs doing, what could have been better or what someone else expects of you. Rest helps for a moment, and then it starts all over again.

People can keep going for a long time on discipline, responsibility and loyalty. Sometimes so long that they no longer know what they feel or want. So I do not only look at ways to calm down, but above all at why your system finds it so hard to switch off.

Do you recognise this?

Burnout complaints usually build slowly, and people who can handle a lot tend to notice late. You do not have to be off work to do something about it:

  • you are tired, even after a weekend or holiday
  • your mind does not stop, not even when you go to sleep
  • things that normally come easily now take a lot of energy
  • you work harder, but it never feels finished
  • you wonder whether this job or this life still suits you

Why rest alone is often not enough

Rest matters, but it does not explain why you keep ending up at the same point. Patterns often play a part: perfectionism, difficulty setting boundaries, or the feeling that you only count when you perform. Those qualities have probably brought you a lot, which is exactly why they are hard to let go of.

Together we look at what is really going on, so that you are not back at the same point in six months.

How we work on it

First we understand what is going on, then we choose what fits. I work with approaches including ACT, cognitive behavioural therapy and solution-focused techniques. My approach is active and goal-oriented: we agree what we are working towards and check along the way whether that still fits.

A course can sometimes be paid by an employer, from a prevention, development or absence budget. No content is shared without your permission. If you are on sick leave, your GP or occupational physician remains your point of contact alongside this.

A good fit for

  • Ongoing stress and a mind that will not stop
  • People with a lot of responsibility
  • Perfectionism and difficulty setting boundaries
  • Doubts about work or direction in life

Something else fits better

  • In an acute crisis or with active suicidal thoughts
  • If a doctor has not yet looked at your complaints and you want physical causes ruled out
  • With complex difficulties that require specialist mental health care

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What you are facing

The themes people most often come to me with.

How I work

What a course looks like, from the first call onward.

Rates and reimbursement

Including the routes through an employer.

Frequently asked questions

Questions about burnout and stress

No. You do not need a diagnosis. Many people come because they notice it is taking more and more energy, and want to prevent it from getting worse.

You do not have to wait until you cannot go on

In a free 15-minute phone call I will hear what you are running into. Then we look at what a logical next step is.